<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Modern Grandad: Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[Where modern grandads are made. Julian Mather shares ideas, stories, and conversations about showing up for the next generation.]]></description><link>https://moderngrandad.substack.com/s/podcast</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Qr6L!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Faffff2ec-8bf9-475b-99ca-e6abb89d3745_1280x1280.png</url><title>Modern Grandad: Podcast</title><link>https://moderngrandad.substack.com/s/podcast</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 11:14:37 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://moderngrandad.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Julian Mather]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[moderngrandad@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[moderngrandad@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Julian Mather]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Julian Mather]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[moderngrandad@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[moderngrandad@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Julian Mather]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[My First 12 Months as a Grandad]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#8220;This episode was recorded before the podcast evolved into Modern Grandad.]]></description><link>https://moderngrandad.substack.com/p/week-3-my-first-12-months-as-a-grandad</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://moderngrandad.substack.com/p/week-3-my-first-12-months-as-a-grandad</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julian Mather]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2025 02:48:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/174983558/21a04fc91378dcbb01af97db04931d5a.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8220;This episode was recorded before the podcast evolved into Modern Grandad. The ideas still hold &#8212; the mission just got bigger.&#8221;</em></p><p>Becoming a grandad changes you in ways you don&#8217;t always expect. In this episode, I take stock of my very first year in this role &#8212; the wins, the misses, and the surprising lessons that emerged along the way. Through play, presence, and purpose, I&#8217;ve discovered just how much difference simply showing up can make &#8212; and how being a grandad is about far more than toys or tradition.</p><h3>What&#8217;s Inside This Episode</h3><ul><li><p>Why presence is the best gift you can give your grandkids.</p></li><li><p>How a $50 front carrier built a bond stronger than any toy.</p></li><li><p>The joy (and backache) of graduating to e-bike adventures.</p></li><li><p>Why rocks, sticks, and water taps often beat store-bought toys.</p></li><li><p>How Duplo and busy boards set the bar higher &#8212; and kids rise to it.</p></li><li><p>The simple practice of diary-keeping relieves parental guilt.</p></li><li><p>How small rituals like &#8220;Quarter Turn Tuesday&#8221; deepen family purpose.</p></li></ul><p>This podcast isn&#8217;t polished &#8212; it&#8217;s my curious, messy, heartfelt quest to be the best grandad I can be. If you&#8217;d like to walk this journey with me, stick around and let&#8217;s learn together.</p><p>&#128073; <a href="http://www.bestgrandad.com/">www.bestgrandad.com</a></p><p></p><h3>&#128273; Takeaways</h3><ul><li><p>Presence builds stronger bonds than presents.</p></li><li><p>Shared experiences outlast expensive toys.</p></li><li><p>Set the bar higher &#8212; kids thrive when they reach for it.</p></li><li><p>Small rituals create family connection and purpose.</p></li><li><p>Starting messy beats waiting for permission.</p></li></ul><p></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://moderngrandad.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Best Grandad Project! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Play, Presence, and Purpose Matter More Than Toys]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#8220;This episode was recorded before the podcast evolved into Modern Grandad.]]></description><link>https://moderngrandad.substack.com/p/week-2-why-play-presence-and-purpose</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://moderngrandad.substack.com/p/week-2-why-play-presence-and-purpose</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julian Mather]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2025 01:12:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/173810011/4f4930766ba009bae87aa1ba3bfc2430.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8220;This episode was recorded before the podcast evolved into Modern Grandad. The ideas still hold &#8212; the mission just got bigger.&#8221;</em></p><p>Welcome back to the Best Grandad Podcast &#8212; my curious, messy, heartfelt quest to be the best grandad I can be.</p><p>In this episode, I share:</p><ul><li><p>Why play is about raising the bar, not lowering it (and why I built a toy my grandson can&#8217;t even use yet)</p></li><li><p>How the <em>Macadamia Nut Raceway</em> proves the best toys often cost nothing</p></li><li><p>Why presence is the most valuable gift a grandad can give &#8212; and why I&#8217;m happier off social media</p></li><li><p>How an e-bike became a bridge to parents and <em>The New Grandad Club</em></p></li><li><p>Why I know this idea will work, even with just one sign-up</p></li><li><p>My pocket-sized reset for tough times: the <strong>3 Ups &#8212; Own Up, Wise Up, Step Up</strong></p></li></ul><p>This podcast isn&#8217;t polished. It&#8217;s me learning out loud &#8212; sharing experiments, stumbles, and small wins as I figure out how to show up for the next generation.</p><p>&#128073; Learn more at <a href="http://www.bestgrandad.com/">www.bestgrandad.com</a></p><p>&#10024; Quote from the Episode<br>&#8220;The best toy costs nothing. The best gift costs nothing. The best gift you can give your grandkids isn&#8217;t stuff &#8212; it&#8217;s you.&#8221;</p><p>&#128273; Takeaways</p><ul><li><p>Play, presence, and purpose matter more than toys.</p></li><li><p>Raising the bar helps kids (and adults) grow stronger.</p></li><li><p>Presence beats presents every time.</p></li><li><p>Grandads can fill the gap &#8212; and change who they are to change who kids become.</p></li><li><p>Responsibility is the reset button: Own Up, Wise Up, Step Up.</p></li></ul>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How Becoming a Grandad Changed My View of the Future]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#8220;This episode was recorded before the podcast evolved into Modern Grandad.]]></description><link>https://moderngrandad.substack.com/p/week-1-how-becoming-a-grandad-changed</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://moderngrandad.substack.com/p/week-1-how-becoming-a-grandad-changed</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julian Mather]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2025 09:14:20 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/172617903/fd274ff570f1ad39d78edbaa5cee1b41.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8220;This episode was recorded before the podcast evolved into Modern Grandad. The ideas still hold &#8212; the mission just got bigger.&#8221;</em></p><h4>&#127897;&#65039; Week 1 &#8211; How Becoming a Grandad Changed My View of the Future</h4><p>Welcome to the very first episode of the <strong>Best Grandad Podcast</strong> &#8212; my curious, messy, heartfelt quest to be the best grandad I can be.</p><p>Becoming a grandad has changed the way I see the future. In this episode, I share:</p><ul><li><p>The moment with my grandson Remy that triggered the Best Grandad Project</p></li><li><p>Why I believe <strong>change isn&#8217;t a process &#8212; it&#8217;s a decision</strong></p></li><li><p>The challenges boys and young men face today &#8212; and why grandads matter more than ever</p></li><li><p>How I see grandads filling the gap: connecting kids who need mentors with older men who need purpose</p></li><li><p>The three pillars of showing up: <strong>Play, Presence, and Purpose</strong></p></li><li><p>Why I&#8217;m starting small with <em>The New Grandad Club</em> in Brisbane &#8212; and what I hope it will become</p></li></ul><p>This podcast isn&#8217;t polished. It&#8217;s me <strong>learning out loud</strong> &#8212; sharing the stumbles as well as the steps forward. If you&#8217;ve ever wondered what it takes to show up for the next generation, I invite you to follow along.</p><p>&#128073; Learn more at <a href="http://www.bestgrandad.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com">www.bestgrandad.com</a></p><div><hr></div><h2>&#10024; Quote from the Episode</h2><p><em>"The best gift you can give your grandkids isn&#8217;t stuff &#8212; it&#8217;s you."</em></p><div><hr></div><h2>&#128273; Takeaways</h2><ul><li><p>Change starts with a decision, not a process.</p></li><li><p>Kids need mentors. Older men need purpose. Grandads can be the bridge.</p></li><li><p>Play, presence, and purpose are the tools that help generations grow together.</p></li><li><p>Sometimes the bravest step is starting small &#8212; with what&#8217;s right in front of you.</p></li></ul><p></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://moderngrandad.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://moderngrandad.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>