Uh Oh
He’s been watching.
Remy’s trying to place a toy frog on a pointy rock.
It tumbles to the ground.
Remy looks at it.
Then at me.
“Uh oh.”
Hands out.
Palms up.
Perfect timing.
He tries balancing the frog again.
—
I must be the billionth person to do this.
It’s been thirty years since doing it with Remy’s mum.
But I’m doing it again.
Pause.
Own it.
Fix it.
Not as a lesson.
Just… out loud.
When things don’t go to plan.
Spill something.
Miss something.
Get something wrong.
“Uh oh”
Then deal with it.
—
He’s eighteen months old.
He shouldn’t know any of this.
—
I never sat him down.
Never explained it.
Never told him what it meant.
—
“Uh oh.”
Palms up again.
—
Turns out,
someone was watching.




So... we're you too busy when your own kids were 18-months old, or have you just forgotten and this is a timely reminder?
That's all they do... watch, listen, model.
I remember learning this quickly with small movements, a laugh, a sound, a mimic.
Great mirror those kids, and we get to be reminded everyday of who we really are.
Love this piece, Julian. Thank you.